S3, Episode 4: Build Your Village with Flor Campos

In this episode, Flor and I discuss:

What do you think having a “village” means?

• A village is a way to communicate - asking for things that you need or things you want to share and having those exchanges. 

• For many, a village normalizes all incomes and educates about government benefits. People feel comfortable talking about WIC or other benefits.

What are the benefits of making your own village?

• You can share resources. 

• You can ask them to care for your kids / care for their kids. 

• You can build friendships that last long-term.

If you don’t have a village, where do you start?

• If you’re starting a group, remember that you want to find people that connect with you so be authentic. 

• Start with your values, like community. 

• Take many classes; there are many free or low-cost resources, like story time at the library.

How can people balance children, a job, and a village?

• You can’t always give 100% to everything, so give what you can. Maybe it comes in waves. 

• Give yourself grace if you aren’t able to give more.

How can people connect with Mommies Unidas?

• Find Mommies Unidas here!

Enjoy the episode!

Flor is the founder of Mommies Unidas. A community support group for bilingual moms in Orange County.