S2, Episode 5: Create a Unique Baby Registry
In this episode, Kaitlin and I discuss:
What is BeHerVillage, and how does it work?
It is a platform for parents-to-be to register for support
There is a network of birth workers to choose from or a general fund
They can use a registry guide if they aren’t sure where to start
Friends and family can gift a portion of or the entirety of support, and the money is transferred straight into their account
Services on Be Her Village include photographers, doulas, lactation support, midwives, support groups, nutrition, pelvic floor providers, and more
What is wrong with the “traditional” registry?
Large corporations created the concept of a baby shower
They prey on new and expecting parents by marketing to them
New parents are told they need things to care for their baby
Previous generations did not do it this way, and many other countries don’t do this
A registry should provide support, not things
What systematic failures are present in the US causing new parents to struggle?
For many, they are unprepared for birth and postpartum
There is no community of professionals and loved ones guiding new parents
There is no guaranteed paternity leave
There isn’t enough education about the transition to parenthood
How can we convince friends and family to buy presents from this registry?
Don’t expect to change everyone’s mind
Talk about how impactful the services and support will be
Explain your story and what the services will do for you
What services have the most positive impact for new / expecting parents?
The basics include childbirth education, newborn education, birth doula, postpartum doula, lactation consultant, pelvic floor physical therapy, and maternal mental health care
There are extra services that people can add based on their needs